Muslim In America-

STORY OF  A GIRL :

main 11 saal ke umer mai apny khandaan k saath achy mustqbil ke khatir Bangladesh  se America aae.
jis waqt hum America aay … mere walidain [parents] k pass sirf $100 thy …. Humaari mushkilaat es tara ab be barqaraar hain .Jb mere walidain ny mujhy school bejhna shuru keya , mere walidain ko….. r na he mujhy…. es baat ka koi andaza thaa k school main mazeed mushkilaat mera intazaar kar rahi hain .
main ba-mushkil english bol sakti theess… r poory school mai akyli sir par scrf lyti thee. es leye mujhy school main HIJAABI k naam se pookaarty thy .

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main ny apny rab ke farmabardaari k leye “HIJAAB” ikhtyaare keya , r mujhy apni shinaakhat [IDENTiTY] batoor musliman oraat [women] par fakhar [proud] thaa.
lykin mujhy andaaza nahin thaa ,k mere sir pe ek kapry ka tukra mere leye aainda aany waly barsoon [future] main etna taqleef de sabit ho ga., mujhy zuban r jismani [body] dono terha se itmtyaaz ka nishana banaya gaya , r mujhy “batman” r teja jaisy naamo se pookara gaya .

yeh waqyhe haqeeqat hai k Tulbaah [Students] mujhy dhika[push] dyty ,r mujh par dhukty , r mujh pe thukty ,school k andar be , school k bahar be .
main sakhat khofzada thee, main school main larkiyoon[girls] k gate k bajaay larkoon[Boys] k gate se andar daakhil hote thee .
mujhy yaqeen tha k aisa karny wali main vaahid larki thee… school main mere saath “Imtyaaz” baratny waly sirf mere hum jamaat [class-fellow ] talbaah he nahian thy . Bal k mere “ENGLISH” k ustaad bhe mere libaas r hijaab ka mazak urana suru kar deya … batoor Usttaad [Teacher] main samjhti thee k woh mere madad kaary gy … r mera tahafuuz kary gy , ta k main khud ehtmaad hoon magar us k bar-khilaaf unhoon ny to haqeeqt main mere zaat ka ehtaram khatam kar deya …

ese tara ke surat-e haal ka samna zayda shidat k saath main ny “HIGH SCHOOL” main keya.

Mujhy ab be yaad hai …. woh din jb larkiyaan [girls] mere class k bahir mera hijaab kheechny k leye tayar khri thee …
waqyhe main kaisy bhul sakti hoon …woh din jub 10 se 15 larky [Boys] or aay or woh mujh par thukty thy … or mere hijaab ka mazak uraty…
main apny ap ko be-yaar O madadgaar or khofzada mehsoos karti thee ,mujhy hamaisha es tarha k sawalaat ka samna karna parta k “KYA TUM NORMAL LIBAAS NAHIN PEHN SAKTI”…???

es tarha musalsal mere saath “imtyaaz” barta gaya , HIGH school k doraan mera dil chahta k main school chor du…
lykin mere pass koi or mutabadil mojood na tha …. ese mushkil se main ny “Graduation” muqamal keya …

main jab university main dakhil hoe to mazeed khofzada ho gae …. yeh 9-11 ka waqt thaa … jub ek musalmaan hona newyork main sakhat khatry ke baat thee…
9/11 k baad sir per hijaab lyna or Hijabi kehlwana sakhat khatry ke baat thee… Sir per HIJAAB lyna barah-e-raast [live] ek allamat tha k yeh ORAT [women] muslmaan hai…

Main musalsal khoff ke halat main rahe jub k mujhy Osama-Bin-Ladin dehshaat-gard [Terrorist] k laqab se be pukara gaya…. Waqyhe main en dono ko nshin bhul sakti , jab sub mujhy aisy ghoorty thy jaisy main dusry syaary [planet] se aae hoon… Kabhi sarkoon par mera peecha be keya jata – yeh to ek dehshat naak khawab thaa.

Chnd saal baad 1st Oct -2010 ko main ny ek online HIJAAB studio ka aaghaaz [lounched]keya… mere business ka ek maqsad dusoon ke khidmat thaa . main ek tavuun ka nizaam bnana chahyee thee… jahaan muslim khawateen [women] apny hijaab k istmaal ka tajurba [experience] ek dusry se shair kar saky .

Es k kuch arsy k baad mujhy poori dunia se khawateen [women] ke EMAIL milna suru ho gae .

Mujhy khaastoor par choda saal [14 years] ke Aaliyaa yaad hai… jis ny Bartania [UK] se mujhy email ke thee . Jis main mujhy es ny btaya thaa k kes tara es k HUM jamaat [class fellow] es k scarf par thukty thy, r es ka mazak uraya jata tha …. es k hijaab ke wajha se mujhy r bhe la-ta-daad pegaamaaat [messages] en khawateen [women] k mily ….jinhain HIjAAB ke wajha se un ke mulazmat [job] se nikala gaya …ya Interview main na-kaam qaraar deya gaya… main ny en tamaam khawateen k paigamaat [messages] parny k baad …. main ny en se rabta [contact] keya , en k saath Izhaar -e -humdardi keya r waqyhe jana k en tamaam khawateen k saath kya salook hota raha.

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2011 main poori dunia khawateen [women] ke tarf se jo enhi halaat ke shikaar thee … paigmaat mosul hovy … main soch rahi thee k kis tara en khawateen ke madad kar saku …. main kes tara apni madad kar saku… es waqt mere zehn [mind] main yeh aalmi hijaab [world hijaab] bnany ka khayal [idea] aaya.

main ny socha agar main muslims r non muslims har tara ke khawateen ko es ek mudqif ke tara bulaoon …. sirf ek din k leye agar sub jama ho jaay . Lyhz main ny ek website bnai [world-hijaab-day.com] ,r es tara main ny facebook par fan-page bnaya…. mera message sada tha.. un tamaaam khawateen k leye jo HIJAAB pehanti hain .. bila imtayaaz nasal -O-mazhab ek din k leye jama hoon .

Mehaz 8 days k andar mujhy 67 mukhtlif mumaliq ke khawateen ke janib se paigmaat mosuul [receive] hovy , jin main -UK -Aus – Nygria -Indonasia -Pakistan – be shamil thy .

yeh mukhtlif mumliqke khawateen thee jo mukhtalif mazahib se taalooq rakhti thee … jaisy YAHUDI , Christens r mazhab ko na maan-ny wali khwateen thee … r dusri beshumar khawateen jo phone par messages bejhti … r hum es qbil ho gaay k WORLD HIJAAB DAY ko 23rd mukhtalif zubaanoon main post kar saky.

World Hijaab DAY ny media ke bohot twajha hasil kar le… yeh en sub khwateen k saath ezhaar-e -yakta-e hai , jo rozana hijaab pehnti hain, r haya k saath zindigi basar krti hain . World hijaab DAY ny muslim-khawateen ke HIJAAB k saath zindigi basar karny main madad ke.pny ap se r ap se kehna chahti hoon ….

K yeh zindigi bohot mukhtasir hai , ek dusry se nafrat ka izhar karny k leye , jub es zindigi ka ikhtatam ho ga hum sub ek bary khandaan [family] ka hisa hoon gy .. jisy Insaniyat kaha jata hai ,main dua karti hoon k aalmi hijaab day tehreek humin ek dusry ko bardashat karny ek dusry ko qubool karny ka moqa dy

 

 

 

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